As time goes on, men change their tune. They find a woman they want to start a family with. They get married and have kids and their days of hitting on girls is over.
But what happens to the men who don’t follow this path?
Though there are many 40 year old virgins out there, middle-aged men aren’t sentenced to a life of chastity. Vita Brevis is a living example of this in his book One Saturday Night.
A Decade in the Game
Vita, dubbed the ‘Godfather of the Scottish pick-up community’, got his start with the Pickup community in 2006. This was the age where Mystery method ruled supreme. Peacocking and opinion openers were the norm. In fact, Mystery and Style both make appearances in the book!
The seduction community was an unknown commodity, and the idea of groups of men going to bars to attract women was alluring. So much so that it garnered the attention of many media outlets, including one that asked Vita and his PUA comrades to film their antics at a bar.
Great Advice on Dating and Pickup
Vita’s book is full of great advice on Game. He offers tons of tidbits of advice throughout:
… “hi” is the most powerful opener of all: it just takes a bit of time in the community, and several hundred interactions to realise that.
Naturally, when you’re in the Game so long you’re going to learn a ton. And after internalizing this knowledge, you’re able to convey it clearly to others, especially your struggles:
I still felt nervous. I always do, first set of the night, even to this day. Doesn’t matter how many thousands of sets I’ve done, and it literally is in the thousands. I like that though, the nervous tingle I mean. You can never completely kill approach anxiety. You just can’t. Good thing too, or where would the fun be?
I also appreciated his approach to seduction in that he doesn’t cling to orthodoxy. For example, a lot of guys think that you shouldn’t drink when gaming because it’s “unpure” though Vita brushes this notion aside.
A Memoir from the Last Generation t0 the Next
Vita’s book is part-memoir, part-Game advice. It has a lot to offer to men both young and old. It’s an entertaining and insightful story that you should definitely check out.
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