Many of us avoid these women altogether. And for those that don’t, oftentimes they are able to get out of these relationships before things get ugly. Unfortunately, not all guys are.
You probably know a few guys who either are or have been in this situation. It’s a sad sight to see and one you feel compelled to get involved in. Perhaps trying to talk him out of it hasn’t work, or maybe he’s been clueless as to how to set himself free. Fortunately, there is now a clear-cut, bold guide to escape.
Why A Plan is Needed
Some guys may be wondering why men need a book to get out of an abusive relationship. ‘Guys are tough’, right? and we’re not supposed to need any support. This absurd notion is quite harmful and misleading.
Ending a relationship is hard enough—escaping from a damaged woman is even more so. These women can suck you in emotionally and browbeat you into place, making you likely to stay.
And what about the concept of divorce? How are men to navigate these waters?
As Ivan Throne points out, in this world of saturated information, it is hard for guys to really know how to approach this subject. This is something I haven’t experienced, thankfully, but I’m sure there are message boards and blogs out there devoted to this subject, all providing conflicting information. Escape Plan From the Damaged Woman is meant to be the final say on the matter.
Another excellent point Ivan makes in the beginning is that the system of social services is set up to cater to woman—domestic abuse shelters, divorce courts, social workers etc. all give preference to the woman. Again, men may be too proud to utilize these services, but at least having them available would give men more opportunities.
The Dark Triad Meets Relationships
For those who have read Ivan’s Nine Laws or are familiar with the concept of the Dark Triad in general, one will appreciate that this book follows the same principles. This is not only welcome for one who embraces this ideology, but also the man escaping from his relationship will be much more transformed when he finally leaves.
It will be a tough path , but:
As the months go on and the realization of your escape settles into the mind and heart, great joy and promise truly swell and blossom from the depths of the inner heart.
Getting the Word Out
As a guide to escape from a damaged woman, I wonder what the best way to get this is the hands of a desperate man would be? Hopefully they would find this book on their own, but likely they are so emotionally invested in their relationship that they’re blind. It is therefore up to YOU to help your fellow man.
Sure, not every guy is going to take this without an argument, but it’s in his best interest. See to it that you lift your fellow man. If at the very least, save yourself and say that your tried.
Additionally, see to it that he takes this matter seriously:
This is not a dress rehearsal. You have only a single lifetime and your experience in this life will assuredly live up to your demands.
For if he dallies and hesitates, the worse his situation will become.
Reading through this, the concepts Ivan lays out can be applied to more than just relationships—they can work for a job, friends and family. Any force that is draining you, you can escape from. That said, the book is clearly geared towards relationships. And for that it is an excellent guide. Again, it is quite niche, applying specifically to men in abusive relationships. However, if that’s what you’re looking for then don’t wait any longer.
Click here to get your copy of Escape Plan from the Damaged Woman by Ivan Throne.